Autism-specific training and support for Parents of Autistic children including PDAers

Learn neuro-affirming parenting strategies to assist with anxiety, including PDA, school avoidance, meldowns/shutdowns aggressive behaviours and other daily challenges.

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We've worked with over 20,000 parents, carers, and professionals and helped more than 3,000 families with Autistic children, aged three years right into adulthood, improve their daily lives.

3 ways this program will help:

Helping you

We address your mental health first, so you are in a better place to support your child. This is the crucial first step most support is missing.

Understanding your child

We teach you how to identify the reason behind the behaviour so you can apply better neuro-affirming strategies for where your child is at.

Barriers & Behaviours

Proven tools to reduce meltdowns, anxiety, school avoidance, and aggressive behaviours. We comprehensively address Pathological Demand Avoidance & Sibling Rivalry

How the program is delivered:

100% online, self-paced program with live counselling support.

Video Topics

Each week there are a few short videos on important topics. This is the core of the course and what we want to teach you. Just find time to watch these during the week and you'll be on track.

Bite-sized tools

10-15 minute tools to put things into practice. These are audio files you can listen to on the go and are great additional info.

Ongoing Counselling

We meet online every couple of weeks through a group Zoom call with our expert counsellor. If you can't make the time we will send you the full replay. You can also ask us questions through our private counselling email.

Lifetime Access

Jump in and out or repeat the program as often as you need. We know life is already hectic, so you have access to our programs & group counselling services forever. We open enrolments 7 times a year but spaces are limited.

what we teach in the program:

Wk 1 & 2: Helping You First

We address your mental health first, so you are in a better place to support your child. This is the crucial first step most support is missing.

Wk 3: Understanding Autism

Brain differences, executive functioning, anxiety including differences between ODD & PDA. Understanding why certain behaviours make sense to your child.

Wk 4: Meltdowns & Aggression

Using the SUPER framework to reduce meltdowns, anxiety, school avoidance, and aggressive behaviours. We teach emotion coaching and conflict cycle.

Wk 5: In-the-moment

What to say and do when your child is dysregulated. How to minimise and de-escalate challenging behaviours.

Wk 6: School Avoidance

We break down the complex issue of school can't and how we can teach our children new skills for a happier life.

Wk 7: Communication

Essential skills to help you and your Autistic child build a stronger and healthier relationship. Build rapport and learn key relationship strategies.

Wk 8: Sibling Rivalry

Often siblings are confused or resentful. How do you explain and nurture all the different family dynamics including parenting on the same page as your spouse?

Wk 9: Emotional Regulation

This topic is addressed throughout the whole program but this week we dive deeply into self-regulation and co-regulation strategies.

Live Q&A's

If there are any topics we haven't discussed or you need a hand putting it all into practice, jump on any of our live group sessions. Even just listening to other parents can be helpful.

Autism Parenting Program

With Bonus Gold Membership
$ 1495 one-off fee
  • Videos to reduce stress and understand your child better
  • Bite-sized tools to put things into practice
  • Live online support from expert counsellors & peer support from parents who get it
  • 100% flexible with lifetime access
lifetime

Bonus Inclusion

With Autism Program Gold Membership
$ 0 no additional cost
  • Unlimited access to all 14 self-paced parenting programs
  • Lifetime access to the Live Autism Parenting Program
  • Lifetime access to ongoing group counselling support
  • All 5 -ebooks by Jackie Hall in PDF or Kindle
Bonus
  • 28-day Tame Your Temper Parenting Challenge.
  • 28-day Awakening The Peaceful Parent Within.
  • 6-wk Truce Program (for Marital Relationships).
  • 6-wk Sibling Rivalry Relief.
  • 9-wk Happy Mum Support.
  • 6-wk Stress-Free Kids, Stress-Free Parenting (school-aged children).
  • 4-wk Be The Change (for Stress, Depression & Anxiety).
  • 28-day Find My Calm Within The Chaos Challenge (for parents of children under 4 yo).
  • 12-wk Postnatal Depression Recovery.
  • 5-wk Adjusting to The Change.
  • 21-day Give Me Back My Time.
  • 28-day Make My Child Listen.
  • Recording of The Wired For Happiness Seminar  – How to teach your kids to love life and avoid Stress.
  • 30-day Mindset, Emotions & Mayhem Project.

Frequently Asked Question

We have designed the program to be 100% flexible so just commit whatever time you have each week
If you want a rough schedule, each topic has 3-4 short videos which work out to about two hours per week.  Remember you have lifetime access so just make your way through the program your way. 

The group counselling sessions are held during the day and in the evening.  Your welcome email will have the exact date and times of our live chat.  Everyone is emailed a private replay link so you will never miss any info. 

Yes, Absolutely!

The Carer/Parent Training line item we use is universal across ECI and NDIS plans.

Early Intervention and Skill Development: Parent training provides parents with tools to engage their children in strategies for early intervention. When parents learn evidence-based techniques to use at home, children have more chances to develop essential skills and reduce behavioral issues.

The same criteria apply as an NDIS plan.  If you are unsure check out the first FAQ “Is my plan eligible?”

Yes. We encourage both parents to do the program regardless of their living or marital situation and only charge one fee.

Just fill out the enrolment form with one parent’s details and when we send you your welcome email let us know you would like a second parent set up.  We just need their name, email, and phone number and we’ll set them up with their own access to make their way through the course at their own pace.

If you both want to do the training but would prefer not to be on the same live course, we can set you up to do different programs so you feel safe to share.

Regardless of whether your child has an Autism diagnosis or not you are welcome on the program! If you are facing challenges such as meltdowns, shutdowns, high anxiety, aggressive behaviour, or school avoidance and feel you would benefit from a neuro-affirming program we would love to have you.

Many parents join using their child’s ECI Plan with just a Global Developmental Delay diagnosis.  Or if you don’t have access to any NDIS funding you are absolutely welcome to join using our upfront or payment plan options

We take enrolments through the first week of the enrolment closing date.  You are definitely not too late.

We get you might have found us late-night Facebook scrolling and enrolments may have just closed.  Don’t stress, once we receive your enrolment form we can have everything set up for you our end within one business day.  

If you are enrolling using an NDIS plan just fill out our enrolment form ASAP, so we know you want to join us.

The first live session isn’t until 2-weeks after the closing date to give everyone time to get started and settle into the learning.

PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance or ‘Pervasive Drive for Autonomy’) individuals share Autistic characteristics and in addition have many of the ‘key features’ of a PDA profile:

  • Resisting and avoiding the ordinary demands of life
  • Using social strategies as part of the avoidance
  • Appearing ‘socially able’ but this may mask underlying differences/difficulties in social interaction and communication
  • Experiencing intense emotions and mood swings
  • Appearing comfortable in role-play, pretense and fantasy
  • Intense focus, often on other people (real or fictional)
  • A need for control, often driven by anxiety or an automatic ‘threat response’
  • Conventional approaches in support, parenting or teaching are ineffective

Autism is dimensional, which means that it varies a lot from one person to another. A PDA profile describes one way in which Autism presents.  If you are unsure if your child is a PDAer, using declarative language and other PDA techniques will do no harm but could be an absolute gamechanger for the both of you!

A child (or adult) can be given an ODD diagnosis without an Autism diagnosis; however every child/adult diagnosed with PDA is Autistic. 

In Autism, demands can be avoided due to increased anxiety surrounding everyday activities and situations, such as sensory overload, disruption to routines, difficulty transitioning from one activity to another, and activities/events that they don’t see the point of or have any interest.

In PDA it is the DEMAND ITSELF that creates the anxiety.  With PDA it’s a case of Can’t not Won’t.  Often even enjoyable tasks cannot be actioned because of the anxiety around the perceived demand.

The NDIS does not pay for future-dated services.   However, we are a bit of a unicorn as we offer a lifetime service so can’t bill at the end of our services.

Although you are joining a live version of our Autism Parenting Program, because we give you instant and lifetime access to all of our self-paced training and counselling resources, we satisfy the NDIS requirement that the services we are billing for are provided at the time of invoicing.

We have processed more than 3,000 of this exact invoice through the NDIS over the last few years and have spoken about our program with most large plan management companies.  If your PM has an issue, it is usually just a quick call with us, and the invoice is processed.

Jackie Hall, founder of The Parental Stress Centre and course facilitator, is a qualified counselor and a member of the Australian Counselling Association (ACA). With 16+ years in the mental health field, her expertise encompasses trauma, anxiety, depression, personality disorders, eating disorders, and more. 

Her proficiencies include CBT for Anxiety and Depression, 11 years of Trauma Counselling including EMDR, residential youth care with complex needs Autistic children, and training in addressing challenging child behaviors using Solution-Focused Therapy and Trauma-informed approaches. 

Jackie is passionate about creating a neuro-affirming culture, helping parents, and ensuring young Autistic people feel safe, seen, and understood.

We have some amazing testimonials from parents of toddlers all the way up to parents of young adults and everything in between.  Our goal is always to help you to understand why a certain behaviour makes sense to your child and give you a bunch of tools and strategies to help.

We are all about helping you to create tailored and consistent support: Nobody knows a child better than their parents. Parent training allows strategies to be personalized according to the child’s specific needs, ensuring that the tools used are appropriate and effective. 

Wherever we give younger children examples we will give an older example and vice versa

Sample our training:

Just part of our module on Pathological Demand Avoidance.

What parents say about our program

We ask parents who have done the program what they would say to someone considering it. We also asked how they would like us to identify them and their child, hence the differences in language used.

"My daughter is 19 and I truly wish that I had access to such a program when she was first diagnosed. Jackie has been a constant source of encouragement and assistance. I would say to anyone thinking about embarking on the journey – do it for yourself and do it for your family."
Simone D.
Mother of 19yo Autistic Daughter
"OMG! You have to do this programme, its been a life changer. Take your time, you can do it at your own pace. There is so much support, you can reach out to Jackie and her team or join a zoom, where everyone is feeling like you. Its something that everyone should do, whether your kid/s are on the spectrum or not."
Nicki M.
9yo neurodiverse son and 12 year old daughter
"This is by far one of the best programs I have ever been a part of. It is information-rich and has very practical activities to help. It is easy to follow and if you do the activities you will see huge changes in both yourself and your child"
Mamey N.
Mum of 4yo ASD/ADHD Son
"I feel like I have entered a whole new world of information and possibilities on how to manage the difficult situations that we are faced with every day. I would highly recommend this program to any parents who are struggling with their own emotional responses and the emotional responses of their children."
Wendy M.
Mother of 12yo Autistic Son
"The changes I have noticed have been subtle yet significant. I have used the many tools learned along the way and my son has responded well to them, creating a shift within our dynamic. It’s been wonderful. The brilliance about doing this program is it can be at your own pace and the support you receive from Jackie and other parents is a blessing you never knew you needed. It’s life changing."
Sylvia H.
Mum of 12yo Son ASD3/ADHD/ PDA/OCD/SPD/GDD/ Intellectual Disability, Expressive Language Delay & Dyspraxia
"This program has opened my mind, and I highly recommend it to every parent. It has some precious strategies that help to become a better parent and person."
Arif K.
Father of 11yo ASD child
"This course, though focused on parenting is in fact way more. It is a positive, solution focused blueprint, inclusive of the negative, educational program for navigating life. The program offers kind, understanding and insightful support from both Jacquie and other parents who “get it” without judgment or criticism. I believe if you're considering joining the program with hesitation you have absolutely nothing to lose by investing in this program."
Stephanie L.
Mother of two uniquely diverse girls 15 and 13 years old
"I rang this place accidentally and it's the best wrong number I've ever called 😉 My daughter's NDIS plan covered the cost and it has been amazing. We are only 3 weeks into the course and it has already been invaluable."
Bec B.
Mum of 13 yo Autistic daughter
"I can’t recommend it enough. Don’t feel daunted by the 9wks - you can participate at your own pace. The content can be daunting as much of it will make you reflect at your own behaviours and regulation. But it really does help unpack a lot of what leads to both parent and child behaviours. And it’s a course you’ll come back to again when you have the space to redo if you’re not able/ready to now."
Hazel V.
12, 11 & 8yo ADHD?ASD children
"I am currently doing the course and it is so much better than I expected. No wait-lists or cancellations because of lockdowns and all that stuff. No appointments to rush to, just quality information to help you and your child."
Lisa A.
Mum of 6yo Autistic son
"I highly recommend this program to all ASD parents - regardless of where you are on your parenting journey as we all need to review our negative thinking and our approach to everyone around us. This program will boost your confidence so that you can be the parent advocate you need to be but also enjoy the daily ups and downs."
Anita S.
Mum of 15 yo ASD teen
"This program has been amazing. I have learnt so much and as a result my house is a lot calmer. I am better able to handle my stress and anxiety levels. I recommend this program to anyone looking for a change."
Mandy H.
Mother of 6yo Autistic son
"This course has guided me to a better understanding of my emotions when dealing with my kids, not only my son who is nonverbal and on the spectrum but also helped me dealing with my neurotypical daughter"
Ilyad A.
Dad of 7yo autistic nonverbal son
"Thank you from the bottom of my heart for creating this program. Before I commenced this program, my biggest challenge was where to begin? I knew mine and my family's lives were in turmoil but where was I supposed to start? You were able to easily identify the different challenges we were facing and provided multiple approaches and solutions."
Lisa D.
Mum of 9yo son ASD3/ADHD
I've learned ways to support my daughter and help her see that things aren’t set in stone. How she feels right now is not her destiny but with effort and time, her brain can rise to many challenges and learn strategies. This is a wonderful program of you are hoping to gain support and understanding about autism and it’s impact on the autistic child, the family, et
Natalie G.
Mother of 15yo daughter ASD1
"Just do it! It may seem overwhelming at first but as you progress through each day it all clicks in to place and becomes easier to absorb and put into practice. A most worthwhile course."
Peta E.
Grandmother of 2 beautiful autistic children aged 5 and 8
"Sign up now! Don’t think twice. You have nothing to lose and so much to gain. The fact that the course and all other courses are yours for life means that you can be very self-paced and just do what you have time for or revisit materials that you need to spend more time on. I discovered that this course was not just helpful for my child with autism but also my child with ADHD & especially for my own mental health.  I used my sons NDIS funding to pay for this and I've seen more impact than any other way I’ve spent his funds. I promise you that you won’t regret signing up to this course."
Allison B.
Single mum to 13 & 15yo neurospicy teens
"The Parental Stress Centre really understands that the journey we are on means sometimes, our capacity is not where we would like it to be but the postive encouragement to take it one step at a time and do your best is necessary. Change will never happen if you don't do something different and this course allows you to choose what works for you with where you're at. "
Davina F.
mother of a 5yo Level 2 ASD
"The benefits of the program are: - Ongoing support from Jackie - A community group to share thoughts with - A feeling that I'm not alone. There's no pressure because there is plenty of flexibility on when it can be completed."
Aaron C.
Father of 9yo daughter & 11yo son
"Always so informative and helpful. So glad I got a PSC membership. It is so worthwhile and all the info that's provided is something you can go back to and refer to for the future."
Sarah M.
Mum of neurodiverse family
"Just do it! If you get one thing out of it its worthwhile but I promise you will probably get a hundred things out of this program. I've gained so much more out of it than I thought I would."
Lou K.
Mother of 9yo Autistic daughter
"I would like to recommend this program and reassurance that this is really good program to assist dealing with spectrum behaviour and managing / coping with the situation. "
Ony S.
Mother of 7yo ASD son
"100% do it. It is so beneficial and laid out and explained in such an easy and actionable way."
Kelly B.
Mother of 7 yo boy ASD/ADHD and 5yo girl (Neurotypical but high anxiety)
"Absolutely give this program a go!! It will change your life as a parent of an Autistic child! I've already suggested this program to my sister as my niece was recently diagnosed with ASD"
Kirsty.
Autistic Mother of 5yo Autistic daughter

98% of parents join using their child’s NDIS plan

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